“Baby we’re in love, so it’s only right that we make love” said my 17 year old “boyfriend”.

“But why should we have to ‘make love’ if we already have it?” said the 14 year old me.

This was my first “sex talk”.

He kissed me with the deceit of a serpent’s tongue. Entranced by “I love you’s” and misguided by his words, I surrendered my cherished fruit. Need I say more?

Can someone please explain to me the whole birds and the bees thing? I don't get it.

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I will never forget when I lost my virginity, either time. To be honest it’s a grey area for me, no I was not drunk or high. I was well in a relationship with a transgender for 4 years of my life. I was in high school, I fell in love. It was an interdependent love but it was mine. So this boyfriend of mine wasn’t fully equipt we still had sexual encounters, and well that could be how I lost my virginity. If you count sex as the intimate act or being together, but if you look it up and follow the real definition then things change. If we are going with my first time with a penis involved well then I suppose I lost it to a guy I met in a bar. Not the night I met him but about a month later. He was from a town 2 hours south of where I live, I went there to party. So for a month we chatted online via the phone texted you know the long distance flirting. I had friends near him so when one was having a birthday I let him know. He so nicely said I could stay with him. We had sex in his dirty little apartment, he wore ripped boxers and after I felt dirty. So ended that. See I didn’t think it was a big deal because I had my other intimate moments and those were better, special even. So no matter what the case I am not a virgin. Especially since I have had my fair share of sex since then. Wonder what happened to my love the transgender lets call him Steven, well we broke up and got back together like any good over dramatic couple. Then we got engaged moved in together and well broke up again. I am glad really very glad, he has a new girlfriend now no doubt they will get married. She seems good for him something I wasn’t. Read more »