Recently I revisited LAID…this book I dunno if you’ve heard of it but it’s amazing ;) and came across something I didn’t pay enough attention to when I first read it:

“If your sexuality was a canvas and every partner that you’ve ever had painted something on it, what would it look like? Is your canvas crowded? Is it a masterpiece?? Or is it straight graffiti??”

So I thought about it for a veryyyyyy long time so I tried to write a poem which didn’t turn out the way I planned but such is life. I told the story of my “canvas” from my first sexual experience to my last and some details in between without actually saying it. You’re gonna have to read between the lines and figure out what I REALLY mean. It’s not “real poetry” in my eyes its just a little wordplay and a lot of sexual innuendo that rhymes…which is fine cuz I’m not a writer I just write a lot. Warning: Some lines are just a foolish joke hopefully to evoke a giggle. enjoy!  

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DISCLAIMER: This post is the exclusive opinion of the author and does not reflect the opinion of the United States, the United States Department of Defense, or the United States Army.  Additionally, the above photo is credited to ABC News (Photo Illustration).

So, that post that I wrote about pregnant soldiers getting court-martialled?  This is a BIG DEAL on Capitol Hill right now, to the point that Maj. Gen. Cucolo, the commander of Multi-National Division-North, has spoken up about it.  Here’s a small excerpt from the ABC World News report:

“I regret that the term court martial is bandied about or mentioned,” Cucolo said from Iraq in a conference call. “I do not ever see myself putting a soldier in jail for this.”

Pregnant soldiers are immediately redeployed out of combat zones to bases where they can get comprehensive medical care.

“The true purpose behind this is to cause them to pause and think about, ‘Okay wait a minute. It was written in the order and I’m going to leave my team. I’m going to leave an outfit shorthanded,’” Cucolo said.

Cucolo said that he was not surprised by the reaction and intense interest in his general order, but that those outside the military may not be able to fully understand his motivation.

For the entire article, click here.

I’m pretty sure this is the last time you’ll hear from me on this topic, readers, since it seems to be resolving itself.  However, the entire issue does raise one particular question for me: is this indicative of an attitude against women serving in the military, permeating even the highest ranks?

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DISCLAIMER: This post is the exclusive opinion of the author and does not reflect the opinion of the United States, the United States Department of Defense, or the United States Army.  Additionally, the servicemembers pictured are in no way affiliated with this post.

This morning, under the foot and a half of snow that dumped itself on the American Northeastern and Mid-Atlantic states, my husband told me that the U.S. Army is now court-martialling* pregnant soldiers.

WTF?!

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I was asked to do a piece on finding and keeping a man, and while I don’t profess to be any relationship expert, I have gleamed a thing or two from my own relationship and from watching other people’s. This post is written mainly for an audience of women interested in dating men, but there’s also a lot of stuff that applies to relationships in general and I definitely welcome feedback from people outside of the target audience (especially straight men – do you think I’m being fair to you in my advice?).

Without further ado, here are five tips that I think really contribute to the creation and maintenance of a strong relationship:

1. Be good friends

If your image of an ideal relationship is based on anything you’ve seen in a mainstream chick-flick, do yourself a favour and catapult that image out of your head right now. You know how we girls complain that porn gives men unrealistic expectations of women? Well chick-flicks are the female porn: they tell us that out there waiting for all of us is a perfect, one-dimensional, “normal” man – and such a creature just doesn’t exist.

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That title probably caught you off guard hehe but thats great. I randomly came across this link on twitter. It’s an article detailing the 10 steps to The Venus Butterfly–a tantric sex technique. They claim it pretty much gives a woman a super-orgasm! sweet! Its been around for forever but i’m now finding this out…As I read it I thought it was pretty intense so I felt the need to share. :D Enjoy!

lucky her.

78% of women do not explore the inside of their bodies (based on an internal survey). If they did, they would discover that the G-Spot can be a longer, deeper, more powerful orgasm than a clitoral orgasm.

The Venus Butterfly is an ancient Tantric lovemaking technique first practiced in India 3000 years ago. It allows the female to experience a high peak of ecstasy by having two primary erogenous zones pleasured at the same time, the clitoris and the G-spot. It is advisable for the woman to empty her bladder before embarking on G-spot stimulation or Venus Butterfly Technique since it does stimulate the urethra.

Tantra is a Sanskrit (ancient Hindu language) word that means to weave energy Yin (female) and Yang (male) energy between two lovers. This energy includes our thoughts, feelings, physical and sexual actions. Tantric Sex is a more intense, loving and respectful than a common quickie. Even the words for sexual organs are more poetic such as Pearl for Clitoris and Yoni for Vagina.

10 Steps to Venus Butterfly Technique

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It’s dark. It’s Baltimore—The Home of The Wire. It’s 2am. She stands alone in the hood on a street corner wearing a “sexy” maid’s outfit. It’s never safe out here at this hour. Her breasts are fighting to escape from that top. My light is red, so I have the audacity to stare at her. I think “wtf it’s not Halloween, and I know she’s not a real maid wearing that at this hour. She’s definitely a prostitute”. I couldn’t help but notice her crazy makeup, fake hair, cellulite, skin, ass, tits, and very cute hooker boots though…but still, more than I needed to see at the moment. I must admit I label her a trashy hoe. “The Maid” slowly struts towards a black Buick to do what I call “The Hooker Lean” into the passenger side window. They work a deal. She gets in. They drive off. We all know the rest.

"The Hooker Lean"

SO WHY IS THIS ILLEGAL? PROSTITUTION IS A VICTIMLESS CRIME, SO SHOULDN’T IT BE LEGALIZED? Read more »

Every human being has a sexual orientation based on their sexual preference. This is known to be a common knowledge fact; however, some knowledge has been left out of the common audience’s education on human sexuality.  In a quest to understand sexual preference and orientation, one major piece of the puzzle has been left out: Asexuality. 

Asexuality is just as much a sexual orientation as homosexuality or heterosexuality, but much resistance has been shown to the concept of asexuality as an orientation and/or sexual preference. This community is as real as the LGBTQ community or the heterosexual community, but has been met with resistance because of the dominating mindsets of today. In a world so centered on the human sexual experience, today’s society has a hard time understanding that a sexual orientation can be based on the preference of no sexuality needed.

Sexual orientation is based on one’s own sexual preference; therefore, asexuality is just as much a sexual orientation as homosexuality or heterosexuality. Why? Because asexuality is centered on a sexual preference that lacks or has no desire for sexual activity.

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